We have no idea why Cameron Diaz continues to choose commitment-phobic men when she has always been vocal about wanting to settle down and get married.

And with her current relationship with Alex Rodriguez this same rule still apparently applies, with A-Rod revealing to fans over the weekend that he has no plans whatsoever to wed in the near or middle future, but Cameron has other dreams.

“I am a romantic. I love romance. I’m not afraid of commitment. I commit to everything I’m doing and I am hopelessly loyal,” the 37-year-old stated.

“The mystique and the romance of a big wedding are lost on me. I don’t think that I could ever do something that extravagant,” Cameron continues.   “I am not much of a planner. I would probably make the phone call 20 minutes before the bus leaves for the chapel and ask if anyone is available to come. That’s probably how my wedding is going to end up.”

Dammit, we have a soft spot for Cameron and just wish she could find the right, more commitment-prone dude for her.

While Cameron won’t even confirm that she is actually in a relationship with reported boyfriend British model Paul Sculfor, there has been serious wedding buzz around the two this past week. 

One rumor is that she is talking to people at Chanel about getting the Paris fashion house to design her wedding dress for her upcoming ceremony. Someone from Cameron’s camp told Look magazine that “She’s even in talks with Karl Lagerfeld to design a Chanel couture wedding dress for her.”

The pair has also been seen around Somerset in the UK, scooping out potential spots to hold the wedding. And it looks like Cameron wants a big, white one.

“They plan to hire out an entire hotel for their family and friends, and throw a massive party. They want to get married in the UK, but will continue to live in Los Angeles.”